Category: Unfinished thoughts
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dare to bare
Can I wash my dirty laundry in public? I’d actually love to. I recently heard that what really sets us free is the acceptance of the truth–the truth about ourselves. Mostly, this truth is ugly, dirty, and one we ought not to see. But as things get weirder and weirder, aren’t we supposed to even…
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To you who I allowed to break my heart over and over: an open letter*
You’ve always been my “superman,” but you are also the Golden Retriever type. With you I am raw, and true, and free–and only you can “tame” that chaotic and complicated moments of who I can be. You have been my fantasized lover, and I always picture us doing so many things together. In my dreams,…
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the turbulent thirties
Who ever decided that a woman’s life has expiration? I’m turning 33 in a few weeks time. It’s always been a gift and a privilege for me to celebrate my birthday. When younger peeps ask me how it feels, I basically have the same, almost templated, response: my 30s, by far, are the best years,…
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throwing stones…
We are the sum of all our good and bad deeds. In our lifetime, we are always faced with the choice of the actions we ought to take. It is always easy to choose the pleasurable, as it eases one’s feelings, but they aren’t always the right choice. When we were younger, our parents provide…